Rooting When the Ground Shakes

How to handle dread

Katie Hoss

9/12/20252 min read


Rooting When the Ground Shakes
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The Weight of Dread

Dread isn’t just a thought you can snap out of. It’s a whole-body experience. It changes the way you breathe, eat, sleep, and even connect with others. It lingers in the background like a shadow, keeping you on edge without an obvious threat in sight.

What Happens in the Body

When dread settles in, the nervous system gets hijacked. We get stuck in fight, flight, or freeze. Muscles tighten, digestion slows, and the heart races even when we’re lying still. Over time, high cortisol levels from this constant state of bracing can lead to inflammation, headaches, gut issues, and even skin flare-ups. The irony is that dread feels like hyper-alertness, but it actually drains us. The body grows exhausted from preparing for a threat that never comes.

Mood Under Pressure

Dread narrows our perspective and makes joy feel out of reach, even when good things are happening. It often leads to irritability, short tempers, or pulling away from the people we love. If left unchecked, it feeds hopelessness—the quiet belief that nothing will ever get better.

Food and the Nervous System

Dread changes appetite. For some, food feels heavy, tasteless, or nauseating. For others, it sparks emotional eating and the search for quick comfort in sugar or carbs. Either way, digestion suffers. Even the healthiest meals don’t break down properly when the body is bracing for danger.

Sleepless Nights

Dread is often the reason we lie awake at two in the morning replaying worst-case scenarios. The nervous system won’t allow full rest because it’s convinced we need to stay on guard. Sleep, when it does come, tends to be restless and broken. We wake up tired, fueling the cycle of anxiety and dread all over again.

Nature as Medicine

The nervous system is built to recover. Earth is one of our greatest allies in that healing. Walking barefoot in grass or soil, sitting with your back against a tree, or simply stepping outside to breathe resets the body. Even five minutes of contact with the earth can lower cortisol and steady the heartbeat.

Practices for Release

In the evening, place one hand on your belly and one on your heart. Take ten slow breaths, letting each exhale send a piece of dread down into the ground. Whisper to yourself, I am safe enough to rest.

Try a barefoot walk, a tree-breath meditation, or grounding with the simple awareness of your feet pressing into the floor beneath you.

Replacing Dread with Something Better

When you release dread, you create space to invite something new. Replace it with calm curiosity—ask, What if I can handle what comes? Replace it with gratitude by naming one simple gift the earth offered you today: sunlight, air, food, safety. Replace it with trust, remembering the earth never panics about tomorrow.

Reflection

Pause and consider: how has dread been showing up in your body—through tension, appetite, sleepless nights, or a heavy mood? Which earth practice feels most possible for you today? If you replaced dread with curiosity or trust, how would your week shift?

Closing

Dread may feel like a storm, but you are not powerless inside it. Your body knows the pathways back to peace. The earth is steady beneath your feet, always ready to hold what you cannot carry.